Rain Smolinsky – Accepting New Clients
Rain | Specialist in Gender-Affirming Care, Neurodivergence, & Expansive Lifestyles
Maryland Insurance: Cigna, BCBS, UHC, and Aetna
Location: Virtual Specialist
Expertise in LGBTQIA+ & Trans-Affirming Care
My name is Rain, and I am a specialist dedicated to the mental health and liberation of the LGBTQIA+ community. I hold a specific clinical focus on transgender advocacy and the deep exploration of gender identity. I provide an expert, affirming space where you do not have to “teach” your therapist about your identity. Whether you are navigating medical transition, social coming-out, or the nuances of non-binary and gender-expansive lived experiences, I offer a steady, informed presence that centers your autonomy.
Specialist in Expansive Relationships & Kink Communities
I provide specialized, non-judgmental support for those navigating non-monogamy, polyamory, and kink/BDSM dynamics. I understand the unique relational structures and societal pressures associated with these communities. My goal is to help you build secure, healthy, and communicative relationships that honor your specific values and desires, moving beyond traditional norms to find what works for you and your partners.
Neuro-Affirming Care: Autism & ADHD
I am an expert in Neuro-affirming therapy, specializing in the support of Autistic and ADHD adults. Rather than focusing on “fixing” neurodivergence, I work with you to understand your unique brain wiring and develop systems that reduce burnout and sensory overwhelm. I also provide specialized care for Substance Use Disorders through a Harm Reduction lens, acknowledging the complex ways neurodivergence, trauma, and coping mechanisms intersect.
An Anti-Oppressive & Humanistic Approach
My therapeutic style is earnest, kind, and intentional. I believe that many of the challenges we face are rooted in the systems around us, which is why I center an anti-racist and anti-oppressive lens in every session. I also operate from a Health at Every Size (HAES) framework, ensuring a body-neutral space for all clients. To support your goals, I integrate a sophisticated range of modalities:
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT): To foster psychological flexibility.
Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT): For emotional regulation and distress tolerance.
Motivational Interviewing (MI): To navigate change and substance use with compassion.
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) & Mindfulness: For managing anxiety and depression.
Primary Specializations
Transgender Identity & Gender Exploration
Polyamory & Ethical Non-Monogamy
Kink & BDSM-Aware Therapy
Neurodivergent Support (Autism & ADHD)
Substance Use & Harm Reduction
Anxiety, Depression, & Codependency Recovery
More About Me
My creative side deeply informs my clinical work. When I’m not in session, I’m an avid crafter—making mini-zines, linocuts, and upcycled paper crafts for my pen pals. I love thrifting, exploring oddity markets, and spending time with my incredibly tiny dog. I believe in finding unexpected possibilities and perspectives in both art and healing.
Ready to work with a partner who seeks to understand the true nuances of your life? Let’s connect and start your journey.